Out of love, you gave me rose

Out of rose, I gave you my rose

I gave you my rose, out of my love

For us to share, his bounty above.

But time is cruel and your rose it stole,

For seizure is his passion and his dreadful role.

The rose that I gave you is perpetually yours

Even if time decides to seize its flavors.

Still I am certain that in the end

You and I can surely depend,

that out of love and out of rose

Life will reign when love’s seed grows.

Why people still do looking for love? After they lost it and suffer for a long time… Why are they still hoping that it will be going back. After the heartaches and shattered dreams… Though they say “Don’t look for love… just wait and for it to come along”… I’ve been on that part after I had found it, I wait for the time he will come along with me! Quietly building our future without him knowing.

After a long time of waiting…

I decided to make a step and tell him my plans… And building his own future… Not with me but with somebody… I had learned that when you love knocks

And you had found it…don’t just wait

Grab the oppurtunity…

Make a move to make it yours…

Before its too late…

I keep on wondering why

Presence of yours makes me smile

Is it love I imagine?

When I dream as a princess

And you are the prince

My knight in shining armor

Is it love I longed for?

When you’re always in my mind

Wanting to be part of you

Living my life with you

Is it love I believe?

Knowing you’re not with me

Being with someone you love

Keeps on hurting me inside

Is it love or is it a simple crush?

Help me out ‘coz I need to know

What is the feeling

That I have for you.

10. Does not say, “Me first!”

9. Believes the best about others.

8. Does not “keep score” of the bad things that others do.

7. Does not tear down others.

6. Is not conceited.

5. Is patient with others, even when they are annoying.

4. Is not happy when someone gets hurt.

3. Helps out others, even if it’s inconvenient.

2. Celebrates the successes of others.

1. NEVER QUITS.

There are 7 essential ingredients in making any relationship work, there are communication, honesty, trust, empathy, compromise, compassion and love. We all know that any relationship - intimate, friendship, family are the best thing that ever happened to us because we experience how to love and be love in return.With this 7 ingredients, it can help us to be success on how to make any relationship works, because if one of the ingredients is lacking, then we cannot say that our relationship with others are success. And this apply to us all - both men and women.

7 ingredients in making Relationship Work

Communication - communication is listed first for a very important reason : in order to even make contact with another, we must communicate our intentions. Eye contact and body language help, but because most people ignore their intuition and hence, are unable to understand and translate what they’re seeing, they often miss important clues that might tell them various things about another individual. So while communication does include eye contact and body language, the communication referred to in this instance is verbal communication. Without talking and communicating our thoughts, feelings and ideas to another, few relationships succeed.

Still, although it is necessary to communicate our thoughts ad intentions in order to open a dialogue, doing so also requires truthfulness.

HONESTY - For various reasons, honesty is one of the most difficult aspects of human inter-relatedness to achieve. One reason for this is because most of us want to be accepted by others. Consequently, we’re often hesitant to say what we think for fear of losing the other person’s support or acceptance, or because we wish to protect ourselves from some ( often mis-) perceived discomfort, fear or danger. But what does it mean to be honest? MERRIAM-WEBSTER DICTIONARY - states that honest is ‘fairness and straight-forwardness of conduct,’ ‘adherence to the facts. When we are straightforward and sincere in our speech and actions towards another, the chances are that person will respond to this in a positive rather than a negative way - even if what we have to say is not necessarily what the other person wishes to hear. Conversely, when we are not honest, we are not only doing a disservice to others, but we also run the risk of creating more long-term - and in many cases, severe - issues for ourselves. Therefore, being honest is an absolutely essential ingredient in a successful relationship.

TRUST - ‘TRUST has many meanings. In this context it means to ‘believe; hope; depend; to have confidence in; to do something without fear or misgiving; to rely on the truthfulness or accuracy of’, etc. This, as many of us are well aware, is not always easy to do. Further, if there are issues in our past, trust can be a difficult thing to attain; especially where another person with those character we are not familiar is concerned. Yet, if we wish to achieve a successful relationship we must learn to extend others the proverbial ‘benefit-of-the-doubt,’ and trust them to do what they say they’re going to do, or to entrust them with our feelings, and sometimes, even our lives. Learning to do so allow us to attain a level of connectedness in our relationships that would not be a present without the ability to trust.

EMPATHY - is ‘the action of understanding, being aware of, being sensitive to, and vicariously experiencing the feelings, thoughts .. of another .. without having the feelings, thoughts and experience fully communicated in an objectively explicit manner ..’ Think about that for a moment : what does it truly mean to understand another?It means that we must perceive as others’ perceive, or to see an event, situation or person as another perceives that same event, situation or person. Once we perceive as another perceives and act on that perception, we are far more likely to be successful in our relationship with that individual because they will see that we are making the effort to make the relationship work.

They said that real happiness happensWhen the search for true love ends

But where does it live?

When does true love exist?

Maybe, it is in the school or disco house

Where me and my friends celebrate youth

When they declare their loyalty to me

But stab my back when I’m not with them

I bet it’s in the romantic places

Where young lovers manifest their love

when boy leaves girl

After he knows she’s pregnant

For sure, it’s in front of the priest

Where man and woman unite as one

When only be separated by death

But true love never ends

No doubt, it’s in my home

Where I and my Family live together

When my Father left with his mistress

While my mother has forgotten us

At last! It’s in the great Cross

Where Christ was hang

When He offer his life

For us to feel

His unending love and mercy

Now, for sure

True love is in the heart of God

Where He invites us to share it with Him

When He sets us free

For us to search for Him..